assalamu alaykom .....


First of all I want to send a special thanks to the people who have made this website .....

second , I am a new member in this montada ... and I hope we will share the benefit ensha allah .....

my question is :

how can the person deals with those people who called ( the enemy of successful ) ??

* THE ENEMY OF SUCCESSFUL : the people who envey the successful man for his level in the society or his knowledge .... ect , and try to make him mistake in any thing he does or says .....


finally ... I am sorry for wrote in english .. but next time all write in arabic

thank you and I am waiting for your politely replay .....

Don't care about those people who called ( the enemy of
successful ) .
It doest matter If you write In English or Arabic
The important thing is that you give us your Idea and Knowledge

Take my best wishes and good luck

Dear Friend,,,
Salaam and regards,,,
Oftentimes people misdirect their frustrations toward other people. Lack of self-esteem can make some people susceptible to fear resulting competitive performance and so they cannot
acknowledge their personal needs and fostering a relationship built on mutual respect. Feeling of insecurity and being easily threatened by the success of others. The Psychosocial aspects of jealousy and envy that people are feeling seems more related to the lack of love they experienced as children, or Family Systems, and Culture. When someone grows up with this kind of difficulty it is almost difficult to feel love for themselves and for others.

There is not a clear-cut distinction between jealousy and envy but, in general, jealousy is experienced when something you have (e.g. a lover or friend) is taken away or is threatened by someone else. Envy is when you do not measure up to someone else or you very much want something someone else has (e.g. an attractive lover, a sports car, success, ). Rivalry is when no one yet possesses the thing you desire (a particular person or position or status) and there is keen competition for the desired goal. Obviously, all of these feelings increase as our desire--our desperation--for the "prize" increases. Jealousy is the most intense. It involves having something highly valued and losing it to the competition--that hurts, angers, and shames us. the best protection against jealousy is a good relationship, i.e. prevention is better than a cure, we may try to change those people or to avoid them, after all it is all in our heads means no one can change our destiny other than Allah

Success and failure are not automatically ‘good’ and ‘bad’ respectively. Success and failure are the result of the interplay between ability, effort, luck, help and a host of other circumstances. To deal with success and failure in a healthy manner, it is important that people develop the right attitude towards other hard working competitors. People set their own goals and standards of achievement and judge how close their performance comes to matching their set goals. And still there are some people with high spirit who wish you the best of luck at your success and achievement.

I want to wish you good luck and certainly hope that we Pray for
forgiveness of ourselves and the people who envy/jealousy us.

“It is in the remembrance of Allah that the heart finds rest” Quran 13:28